Looking For a Good Tai Chi School?
I sometimes find it amusing when I hear students talk about how much better their school, discipline, etc. is than anyone else’s. It’s human nature for us to feel this way and I must admit I’ve done it myself in the past.
I also find this practice a bit sad. Why, you ask, do I find this sad? I find it sad because it usually means the student is insecure with who they are and what they know. This is not a reflection of the school unless the teacher fosters this attitude. When I meet someone who is obviously self-confident and doesn’t feel the need to have the world agree with them, then I know this person is on a good path.
While there are plenty of good schools, and some not-so-good schools, it’s the ability of the student that really determines the level of skill. The teacher plays a big part, but the student plays a much bigger part. If you’re looking for a good school spend a little time researching, to locate one that fits your needs; spend the rest of your time looking within. 
In the words of the infamous Master of Duhism, Bob Tzu:
“If you get in a fight with an atheist, expect to get punched in the faith.”
Your thoughts?
John
P.S. I found this pic here: http://shanelyang.com/2008/05/16/laughter-is-great-medicine-100-funny-movies/
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Sep 30, 2009 - 05:09:14Well said, John. May I also add this article as further evidence?
http://richardnorthwood.blogspot.com/2009/09/dont-limit-tai-chi.html
kind regards,
Rich
“…students talk about how much better their school, discipline, etc. is than anyone else’s…”
I had to live a little bit before I learned to qualify such sentiments with “for me!” What a lesson when we finally learn the actual value of most of our opinions!
I see your point.
Another thought: Why would you study at a school that you think is not the best?
Rich,
Good article on your blog. Thanks for sharing. I’ve also added you to the links on my main website.
John
Walt,
So true! Our opinions have a great deal of value… to us. It can be a difficult lesson to learn. Sometimes I still have to remind myself of this.
John
Laoshi Miriam,
That’s right, why would we study at a school we didn’t think is the best? After all, look at the school where I study. Seems to me that I learned this lesson somewhere.
John